Things That Irritate Me

• People who I don’t know that say, “I kneel and kiss your feet,” when they come online. Who are they to be kissing my feet?


• People who IM me not to talk, but for me to tell them when and how they can orgasm or what they are to wear that day. Why do I care how they orgasm or if they wear panties to work. I have a hard enough time trying to figure out what I am going to wear to work.


• People who are obviously trying to suck up to me just because I have Mistress in my name.


• People who use my name as their IM or email address. They assume they are my submissive just because I talked to them once or twice. How dare they use my name in that manner.


• People who ask me the first time we speak, “Can I be your submissive?” Do they not get it?


• People who claim to be something they’re not.


• People who think they know it all and refuse to listen to other opinions.


• Submissives who act like doormats or play dumb.


• Dominants who demand I submit to them because they know I am a switch.


• People who assume I am always in a tight corset, high heel boots and welding my whip. (here I sit in my nightgown!)


Check back here... I am sure the list will grow!

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Groups I Am A Member Of

Triangle Munch Group (TMG)
We are a group of people in the Triangle, NC area who share an interest in BDSM. Triangle BDSM Munch Group (TMG), was founded 1995.  A team of regular  Munch attendees jointly coordinate TMG's events on a volunteer basis. We welcome any adult, 18 or older, with an interest in BDSM to participate in online discussions on our Triangle Mailing List. Our First Saturday Munches which include monthly BDSM presentations and workshop topics are strictly for those who are 18 or older only. We are a pansexual organization, and therefore do not discriminate based on gender, sexual orientation, race, religion, marital status, etc. Please note that we are not a swinger's group. If your interest is primarily in swinging, we suggest that you look into other local organizations

TMG Website

Female Artists of Domination (FAD)
We are an offline BDSM organization created by Female Dominants, for Female Dominants, to promote camaraderie amongst ourselves, no matter the label: Domme, Top, Mistress, Dominatrix, the gender neutral form of "Master" or FemDom. FAD is also for those submissive to them, slaves to them, bottoms to them, or just for those who admire, worship and seek Female Dominants. FAD is a wonderful place to meet other like-minded individuals in the lifestyle in North Carolina. We welcome both those in established relationships and those seeking to find someone new, but we are not a "hookup" service.

This organization was created in the Summer of 2002 to fill a need we saw in the BDSM community of North Carolina. We welcome het, bi and lesbian individuals whether you are male or female identified, but we do limit and define our Female Dominants to those who are genetically female.

FAD Website

 

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